Ever been to a raving party but had this slight itch in the back of your head to head back and cuddle into your quilts and sob to the Notebook because all you did was sulk in the corner? Why does this surging lack of belongingness pull us and our esteems down to the drain? Why is that when you are working/hanging out with a bunch of people they just won’t let you be yourself?
For people who are not or never have been in the receiving end of this, let me paint you a picture. So you are out with a bunch of friends after quite some time. And now as you are reaching the end of your appetizer, you could see/feel them having inside jokes and snickering about god knows what and when you try to join in , Bam. They just sit around , waiting to alienate you. Now, you have experienced this for sure. If not , either you are too damn lucky or you just might be hurting someone with or without your knowledge.
While this might seem like a speck of a problem when compared to all that’s happening in 2019, but the hell the person goes through is sometimes hard to comprehend. People tend to ponder on this for a long time , overthink about something that was not even in their control. This leads to further binge-eating disorders and serious mental issues. To be a part of something be it a team, family, clan etc , has been in our genetics since the beginning of time. So don’t deny one from that.
Hoping that you understand how shitty this feels,be more considerate to your peer’s feelings. If not, let’s just wait for karma to do its whooping.